He said / She said. So, he sets the ladle from the chili down on the copper spoon rest. She likes to practice her golf put into the copper putting cup around the house. If this happens simultaneously in your household, please buy two. We don't want to cause in domestic disputes. They also engrave beautifully so you sure which one is for chili and which is for golf balls. Thanks to our great photographer, Ashleigh Amoroso for putting a new spin on our classic country club gift.